Romans 12:3 “For the Honor of God”

Here’s my fairly literal translation of these verses:

³For I am saying, by the grace given to me, to all the ones being among you, not to think too highly of yourself, from what it is necessary to think, but to think into being sensibly minded, as God has given to each a measure of faith..

I’m still pondering on this verse. Earlier I mentioned Charles Simeon, a British minister from around 1800. Of all the commentaries I’ve read, he was the only one who seemed to slow down and really see the depth of this verse. That said, I want to quote him at length, as I believe he calls our attention to another implication of the truth we find here:

“It is an insult to God to make His gifts a pedestal for the exaltation of self. You will remember, that He complains of His people of old, because they appropriated ‘His corn, and His wine, and His oil,’ to the honoring of others who were His rivals in their esteem (Hosea 2:5; Hosea 2:8-9). And this is the very thing which every man does, who takes to himself the honor of those gifts which have been conferred upon him by God. And how indignant Jehovah is at such treatment, we may see in His expostulations with Sennacherib: ‘I will punish the fruit of the stout heart of the king of Assyria, and the glory of his high looks. For he saith, By the strength of my hands I have done it, and by my wisdom; for I am prudent; and I have removed the bounds of the people, and have robbed their treasures; and I have put down their inhabitants, …’ Now, hear Jehovah’s reply: ‘Shall the axe boast itself against him that heweth therewith? or shall the saw magnify itself against him that shaketh it? …(Isaiah 10:12-15).’ Tell me, I pray you, what would you have been above the beasts, if God had not endowed you with reason? or, what had you differed from the lowest of the human race, if God had not made you to differ? Your distinctive powers afford you ground enough for gratitude; but none for self-applause: and if, like Herod, you take to yourselves the credit which your ignorant or partial friends may accord to you, like Herod you shall become monuments of God’s just and fiery indignation. You may not be eaten up with worms in this life: but you shall surely bear His displeasure in the world to come. ‘God is a jealous God’ and ‘His glory will He not give to another (Exodus 20:5.Isaiah 42:8; Isaiah 42:8).’ ‘From Him does every good and perfect gift proceed’ (James 1:17), and to Him must all the glory of it be ascribed: ‘He that glories, must glory only in the Lord’ (Jer 9:23 and 1 Corinthians 4:7).”

As I read those words, it struck me that I’ve never seen this whole matter as an affront to God Himself. I am remembering, many years ago, I read I Corinthians 4:7 – “For who makes you to differ from another? And what do you have that you did not receive? But if you received it, why do you boast as if you did not?” – and the Lord showed me my arrogance. My very first thought reading it was, “I don’t think I do boast like that.” Then suddenly, I could see it very clearly for the first time -- I realized that way down deep, underneath it all, I really did think I was better than everyone else. As another man once described it, it’s having “ingrown eyeballs.”

That was a deeply painful moment, to see that awful arrogance in my own heart. Yet, as always with the Lord, it was at the same time gloriously liberating. Having seen it, I knew I could rise above it. Because of the Lord, I knew I would rise above it. I am so thankful for that moment, as the world is a much more pleasant place when I am sincerely realizing I need to value everyone else around me, that we are all “cut from the same bolt of cloth,” that, with Paul I can sincerely say, “By the grace of God, I am what I am.”

So, in that verse I saw how arrogant I was, and of course that was very bad. However, in all these years, the thought has never crossed my mind that my arrogance was actually an affront to God Himself. As Charles Simeon said, “It is an insult to God to make His gifts a pedestal for the exaltation of self… And this is the very thing which every man does, who takes to himself the honor of those gifts which have been conferred upon him by God.” Those words, “It is an insult to God…” are what has my head spinning.

I fear our generation has all but lost any real sense of the glory of God. I myself can see the ugliness of my sins, how hurtful they are to myself and others. I can see how righteousness – doing the “right” things – makes all of life just go better. I very much like that “the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace…” I like that “When a man’s ways please the Lord, He makes even his enemies to be at peace with Him.” And, in a sense, there is nothing wrong with liking any of that. The Lord Himself often encourages people to obey Him, saying “…that it may go well with you and with your children after you.”

But what about God? Insult Him??? “…make His gifts a pedestal for the exaltation of self”??? Those words feel like a giant razor blade cutting down to the very bedrock of my soul. He is my Maker. All that I am and all that I have are a gift from Him – a gift He deliberately chose. My heart should literally live in the wonder of His glory. Yet, I don’t think I’ve ever really seen my arrogance as an affront to Him Himself.

The verse says, we are “not to think more highly of ourselves than we ought to think, but to think soberly, as God has given to every man a measure of faith.” From this day forward, every time I think about my own few fishes and loaves or see and recognize the amazing gifts in others, I want my first thought to be the glory of God.

What a wonderful God He is. He puts up with so much from us. Yet He gives His own Son to make us His children, then patiently sets about to make us all we should be. And when this is over, He gives us heaven forever!

Like Moses, I would pray, “Lord, show me Your glory!”

 

Romans 12:3 “For Whom the Bell Tolls”

Here’s my fairly literal translation of these verses:

³For I am saying, by the grace given to me, to all the ones being among you, not to think too highly of yourself, from what it is necessary to think, but to think into being sensibly minded, as God has given to each a measure of faith..

I’m still nursing on this simple but amazing verse. I think it is one of those verses which are easy to read glibly by and never really let its bombshells of truth explode in our hearts. My mind is still reeling realizing that the very first issue the Lord addresses in Romans 12 is our pride. That should come as no surprise as our pride is the most fundamental expression of our Adamic nature. It lurks in the shadows behind our every lust and sin. If we truly desire to be like Jesus, we must realize it is our worst enemy and sincerely pray and watch against its deceptive allurement.

This morning I want to especially focus on the last phrase “…as God has given to each a measure of faith.”  Obviously, one of the most typical expressions of our pride, of our “thinking too highly of ourselves,” is found in not realizing or truly appreciating that God has given to each person “a measure of faith.” No matter how gifted or talented anyone is, no one “has it all.”  The truth is we all need each other.  

To this point, I am struck by the quote, “Ask not for whom the bell tolls; it tolls for thee.” This famous line traces back to the 17th-century English poet John Donne. In his 1624 Meditation XVII, Donne wrote, "never send to know for whom the bell tolls, it tolls for thee". He was using the tolling of a funeral bell (which was a common practice in days gone by) as reminding us of our human interconnectedness. He was asserting that any loss or death diminishes us all because we are all fundamentally connected. (Most of us recognize the quote from Ernest Hemingway’s novel “For Whom the Bell Tolls”).

Donne was so right. Every death is actually a terrible loss for the rest of us. Since Paul uses the word “faith” and immediately launches into a discussion of spiritual gifts, he likely has those specifically in mind here. I will come back to that, but I’d like to step back and see how this truth embraces all people and should impact our thinking not only at church but also at work, in our families, and everywhere.

“God has given to each a measure…” In Genesis 4:19-22, we read, “Lamech married two women, one named Adah and the other Zillah. Adah gave birth to Jabal; he was the father of those who live in tents and raise livestock. His brother’s name was Jubal; he was the father of all who play stringed instruments and pipes.  Zillah also had a son, Tubal-Cain, who forged all kinds of tools out of  bronze and iron.” Barely out of the Garden and we see God granting to men different talents. Jabal was apparently good at farming, while his brother Jubal was a musician. Their brother Tubal-Cain was a blacksmith of sorts. 

Can we all see how each needed the other? When any one of them died, it was an enormous loss to the others. In fact, it was an enormous loss to you and me as well. What did those guys know that we don’t? What were they able to do that you and I cannot? We’ll never know – because they’re dead. In fact, every human being possesses a unique combination of talents and skills – all of which God gives so that person can in many ways do good to everyone else. Whenever anyone dies, the rest of us are the losers. “…it tolls for thee.”

When I was much younger, I worked on a jobsite where there was an older man who was a plumber. It didn’t take long before I realized how valuable he was. The guy was an amazing plumber, a very hard worker, and just a very pleasant man to know. Then one day he announced he was retiring. I shook his hand and told him I was very happy he could retire and spend more time with his grandkids, but, I had to add, “…but this is a HUGE loss for our industry. You will be very much missed.” And he was, and, in a sense, still is. So is God’s design for every human being. To lose one makes all the rest of us losers.

Someone can ask, “But aren’t there people who die, and we thank God they’re gone?” Because of sin, there will always be people who take the gifts God gave them and use them for evil, not good. Adolf Hitler had some kind of amazing talent for leadership. Because he was so evil, all of humanity can be glad he died. Yet, what if he could have been saved? What if instead, those leadership gifts could have been used for good? In fact, at that very time, there were other men like Winston Churchill in England and Dwight Eisenhower in America who also possessed amazing leadership skills. Where would we be today without them? The truth is we were all the losers first of all that Hitler used his talents for evil, then that he died and took those very valuable talents with him.

“Think of yourselves with sensible judgment, as God has given to everyone a measure of faith.” God gives His gifts and talents to everyone. Every person has a unique ability to do good to everyone else around them. Some may be called to greatness like the Winston Churchills of this world…and then there’s the rest of us. I may feel I have only “five loaves and three fishes” to offer, but what does Jesus say? “Bring them to Me.” Our job is to give those gifts and talents…what Jesus does with them is up to Him!

Think of it – if you and I would be like Jesus, what are we told of Him? “Jesus was a man ordained of God, who went about doing good…” (Acts 10:38). What good did He do? Healed the sick, raised the dead, cast out demons, with His death purchased salvation for the entire world. I can’t do any of those things…but what can I do? I can still be just like Him – I can be determined every day to do whatever I do deliberately, prayerfully seeking to do good for other people.

I am a man. I can go to work every day and realize my goal is to do good. I’m an engineer. I can sincerely try to help small cities and villages to make the best decisions about their infrastructure. I can help them solve problems when they often have no idea what to do. I can deal with the EPA on their behalf. And best of all, I can care about the individual people, try to be supportive, encouraging, respectful. That is precisely why the Lord places MOST of us Christians in this world as simple workers – to infiltrate this brutal, hateful world with little Jesus-people.

The same applies to me as a husband and father and simply as a friend. I’m here to take even the little I possess and to do good for the most people I can all day every day until the Lord takes me home. Few of us needs to be “great.” We may feel we have only one or two simple talents. We just need to hear Jesus say, “Bring them to Me.” He is the one who can bless them and break them and use them to feed thousands. Our job is simply to bring them.

I like what Joseph Parker said: “He made one a painter, another a poet, another a preacher, another a merchantman; he made one woman bright as Elizabeth Barrett Browning, subtle as George Eliot; he made another woman the mother of the house, taking care of everything, cumbered about many things, loving all that belongs to home, and making home the sweetest little church under the sun -- all these are equally the gift of God.”

And why is all that true? Because “God has given to everyone a measure…” Contained in that simple little statement is one of the first and most important ways you and I need to conquer our pride. I am only one of many. I need every single person in this world…and they need me. Every death, every person who uses their gifts for evil, every person who buries their talents in selfishness is a terrible loss for all the rest of us. God, help me not to be one of them.

I need to hear Jesus say, “Do not think too highly of yourself, from what it is necessary to think, but think into being sensibly minded, as God has given to each a measure of faith.”

What if everybody did?

Romans 12:3 “Pride?”

Here’s my fairly literal translation of these verses:

³For I am saying, by the grace given to me, to all the ones being among you, not to think too highly of yourself, from what it is necessary to think, but to think into being sensibly minded, as God has given to each a measure of faith..

Here we go again. This one little verse is another complete bombshell. After eleven chapters of the glorious Gospel and two verses calling us to the life God wants us to live, what is the very first issue which must be addressed?

Pride. We’re admonished not to think more highly of ourselves than we ought to think.

Pride. The devil’s sin.

“The pride of your heart has deceived you” (Jer.49:16; Obadiah 1:3).

“God resists the proud, but gives His grace to the humble” (I Pet. 5:5).

This issue is the terror of my heart. I honestly think, as I study the Bible, this is the most unrecognized sin out of them all. How can that be? For anyone to “think highly of themselves” is what we all call arrogance. We deplore it in others, yet are quite sure it’s no problem for me. It is such an obnoxious sin. Yet, if we know our Bibles at all and listen to the Spirit, it seems to be the very skin in which we all dwell. The key (and the first reason I call it a terror) is because, as Jeremiah and Obadiah warned us, “The pride of your heart has deceived you.” Its deception didn’t end in the Garden – that’s where it started for us humans and that same evil pride would still drag us all down to hell.

My pride deceives me. It hides from me. It hates the light. It is, in fact, so subtle, we (I) can actually be proud of how humble I am! All of that leads me to my second terror, that “God resists the proud.” The word translated “resists” is actually a military word that could be translated, “God marshals His troops against the proud.”

There you go. The last thing in the universe I need is to have God declare war on me!!!! Being born again, He became my Father and “nothing shall separate us from the love of Christ.” However, that relationship and that security do not shelter me from my Father’s chastening hand! In fact, if anything, it makes it worse!

Our Lord knows this is the devil’s sin. He knows it deceives us. And He knows this one sin can utterly destroy all the other good you and I can do, all the spiritual growth which could have been ours, literally everything you ever hoped or dreamed of. In His great Fatherly love, then, He may literally seem to “marshal His troops against us,” if that’s what it takes to cook this sin out of our hearts!  Just think of the brutal treatments a person must endure to overcome cancer in our bodies. How much worse the surgery we must suffer to extract that self-destructive evil pride from our hearts! …and we don’t even see it’s there!

All of that is why I say it terrifies me.

One evidence of pride’s deception is right there in the Bible lying before us. I have probably read Romans 12:3 countless times in my life, but not once did it occur to me the verse is addressing my pride. And not only me, but I have read a large number of commentaries on the verse and only one slowed down long enough to realize how serious it is! Charles Simeon, a British pastor from around 1800, was the only man whose heart jumped reading this verse. I hope to quote him at length later, but first I want to acknowledge that I didn’t see it and seemingly nor did anyone else! Deception.

What do we read? “By the grace given me” – the authority of his apostleship! – “I say to every one of you…” Verse 1 started with the general entreaty, “Therefore, brothers…” Now we read, “I say to everyone of you…” This is probably one of the most individualized verses in the Bible. “Everyone of you…” Paul is making it clear he’s speaking to every one of us personally. Yes, he means me. I’m cornered. Pride? “Think more highly of myself than I ought to think?” Oh, no. Not me. Oh, really? Not me? I hope you feel what I do – that “surely not me!” is lurking somewhere just under my skin.

Yes, me. It’s time to step out into the light and pray seriously, “Search me, O God, and know my heart; Try me and know my anxious thoughts and cares; And see if there be any wicked way in me; And lead me in the way everlasting” (Ps, 139:23,24). Lord, help me today to live in genuine humility, like Jesus, to see others as more important than myself, to seek to serve rather than be served. Renew my mind and may Your Spirit be my spirit today.

I said I wanted to quote Charles Simeon at length. Here is part of what he wrote about this passage:

“Nothing renders a man more contemptible than vanity: it invariably defeats its own ends, and sinks us in the estimation of all whose applause we covet. But, independent of that, the more we arrogate to ourselves, the less will people be disposed to concede to us: and, if they cannot refuse us some degree of credit on those points wherein we excel, they will be sure to search out some faults to put into the balance against it; so that, on the whole, we shall be gainers to as small an amount as possible. On the other hand, modesty gives effect to all our other excellencies: and the more meekly we bear our honours, the more liberal will even the most envious of our rivals be in the bestowment of them. To “prefer others in honour before ourselves (Note: ver. 10 and Philippians 2:3),” is the way to disarm their hostility, to allay their jealousies, to conciliate their regard; so that, even if we had no better object in view than the advancement of ourselves in the estimation of man, we should seek it, not by self-conceit and self-preference, but by sobriety in self-estimation, and by modesty in our whole deportment. To this effect, the wisest of men has taught us, “To seek our own glory, is not glory (Note: Proverbs 25:27):” on the contrary, “when pride cometh, then cometh shame: but with the lowly is wisdom (Note: Proverbs 11:2).”